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10 Ways To Develop Strong & Deep Rooted Masculinity

Zaid K. Dahhaj
4 min readJan 24, 2019

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“Masculinity is not something given to you, but something you gain. And you gain it by winning small battles with honor.” (Norman Mailer)

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1. The grounded masculine makes good use of the criticism that comes from other men.

If you are not grounded within your masculinity, then you will react from the feminine.

You will become:

Deflated

Hurt

Distressed

Offended

Upset

Defensive

These are all signs that you have not truly integrated the grounded masculine within your character as a man.

The criticism of the men around you and your closest friends is extremely important for your growth. This criticism can either be used to help you rise faster or it can be used to keep you in a state of victim-hood.

2. The grounded masculine practices unwavering presence.

The grounded masculine is one with the present moment.

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Zaid K. Dahhaj
Zaid K. Dahhaj

Written by Zaid K. Dahhaj

Sleep King. Helping family men fix fatigue in less than 42 days without letting loved ones suffer. Founder: The 2AM Podcast.

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